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How To Use These 3 Hypnotic “Power Words” To Covertly Increase Your Conversion Rates

Imagine if you had the power to influence people’s subconscious minds.

Imagine if you could do it by using simple trigger words to activate involuntary hypnotic “reflexes” in their brains.

Now imagine you could do it in writing as well as in speech.

You probably don’t believe this can actually happen. But I’m going to tell you that it can—because over time we’ve all been subtly hypnotized to accept certain trigger words. The process started before we could even talk.

You would never suspect these hypnotic words of holding any power. They are simple, and innocuous. But when you use them consciously and correctly, they can dramatically improve your persuasive power.

I have already used six of them to keep you reading.

Now, I doubt you will ever guess all of them—let alone deconstruct why they work. So I’m going to go through the top three and tell you why they’re so potent. And I’ll include examples to help you put them to use.

But before I do that, a word about what hypnosis is, is not—and why these words are considered hypnotic.

What Hypnosis Actually Is

Few marketers have more than a common “knowledge” about hypnosis. That’s a pity because hypnosis is a very powerful psychological tool—and marketing is all about psychology.

Here are some things you may think you know about hypnosis that are actually pure myths:

  • Hypnosis is mumbo-jumbo. Actually, it is a century-old psychological tool used by many doctors, dentists, psychiatrists and therapists to achieve everything from anesthesia without anesthetics, to stomach stapling without staples.
  • When you’re hypnotized you’re asleep. Actually, you are simply relaxed. Your subconscious mind is more active than your conscious (critical) mind.
  • I can’t be hypnotized. Actually, we all go into varying states of hypnosis many times each day. When driving, when watching TV, when reading—you may even be in a state of mild hypnosis right now.
  • Hypnotized people are like zombies or robots. Actually, you can’t make someone under hypnosis do anything they don’t already want to do. Sure, their subconscious mind is “exposed” in a state of hypnosis, so they’re more willing to have their emotions—and ultimately their decisions—directed. And that’s good for us as marketers and salespeople—assuming that we’re in this for the right reasons: i.e., helping people. But if they really don’t want something, you ain’t gonna sell it to them no matter what. So before you read on it would be smart to just double-check the first rule of sales, and make sure that your audience actually wants what you’re offering them.

Okay, I’m glad we cleared that up. Let’s get into these three “power words” shall we?


Why it’s hypnotic

Two factors are at work here.

Firstly, you may have noticed that if you ask a stranger to do something—especially to buy something—they tend to balk. Their natural reaction is to question the instruction. To find a reason to disagree with it. The critical mind throws up objections.

What’s interesting, though, is this doesn’t happen if you just ask someone to imagine something. Especially if you ask them to imagine the outcome of the sale, rather than making the purchase itself. There’s no resistance to that.

This is because we don’t see imagining as a “real” task. It’s just a mind-game. Indeed, an enjoyable game; a distraction from life—as with fantasies.

So by asking your prospect to imagine something, you bypass that critical part that throws up objections, and “sneak in” to their mind through the back door of their imagination. And bypassing the critical mind is the second of three crucial steps to achieving hypnosis. (The first is attracting the person’s attention, which I’ll assume you’ve already done.)

The third step is to stimulate the unconscious mind. That is exactly what imagining something does. As strange as it may sound, the brain literally cannot tell the difference between imagining reality, and actually experiencing reality. As far as your brain is concerned, there’s no difference between visualizing a tree, and seeing a tree.

This makes your prospect’s imagination a deceptively powerful ally to you. Remember—the fear of loss is far stronger than the desire for gain. So if you can get your prospect to feel a sense of ownership for your offering, you invoke a much stronger desire than by merely offering benefits. By getting them to imagine owning it, they become as if they already have it. As if you have already given it to them. And the natural thing to do then is to keep it…which means making the purchase.

This sense of ownership over what we imagine is surprisingly deep-seated. It should be. Our youngest years are ruled by our imaginations. Kids are highly possessive of their make-believe ideas and characters and worlds. They don’t like to be told they aren’t real. And although as adults we’ve managed to conceal that affection for our fantasies under a veneer of pragmatism, the same effect still governs our behavior at a subconscious level.

An example

sales copy example

Daniel Levis has made a study of the psychology of persuasion. Here, he not only asks his prospect to imagine the outcome of buying, but also to picture it. Different words—same idea. Repeating the concept in different ways makes it even harder to resist.

2. “YOU”

Why it’s hypnotic

You is a placeholder for your name.

I know—it’s an obvious one. The three most powerful words in sales, perhaps, are you, free and guaranteed.

But free and guaranteed aren’t hypnotic words. You is. And that’s because it is not actually the word you that has hypnotic power—but the name it represents.

Your name.

I’m willing to bet you have no idea just how hypnotic your name actually is.

For example, did you know that you are much more likely to buy from someone who has the same sounding letter in their first or last name as you do? This according to The Journal of Consumer Research. You’re also more likely to marry someone with the same initial.

And think to your own experience. Don’t you automatically want to like people who have the same name as you? Don’t you feel like they deserve more of a chance than other people? Actors, for example. I don’t just like David Tennant because he’s talented. Irrational as it is, I can’t help feeling that I ought to like him.

Many email marketers have latched onto the fact that a person’s name is powerful—you probably receive emails with subject lines like, “Methuselah, top 10 copywriting tricks”. And many emails you get will start with your first name; long ones will include it several times.

You might also have noticed that this approach doesn’t work. It immediately marks the email out as “artificial”. It doesn’t feel right. And of course not—because no one but a marketer would email you like that. Or perhaps someone close to you, if you were in big trouble. “Methuselah you jackass, don’t bother coming home.”

You may have experienced the same thing from telemarketers. Their script always has them saying your name—as if it will build rapport. But it actually just feels creepy.

A person’s name is so powerful that you have to have a very light touch when you use it.

But the word you is different. It’s natural to use it in conversation, so you don’t need to worry about being heavy-handed. Yet it encapsulates the same basic self-obsessiveness that makes your own name so powerful. (Don’t get me wrong; I’m not criticizing you. We’re all self-obsessed. It’s just the nature of being human.)

The reason words that refer to us are so hypnotic has to do with a psychological effect called Fundamental Attribution Error. Basically, while we are naturally critical of other people, our critical minds take a break when we evaluate ourselves. That analytic part of us just doesn’t kick in. You may not have noticed this about yourself—but I bet you’ve noticed it about all those oblivious inconsiderate jerks constantly making your life miserable.

So when people talk about us, we tend to be lulled. What they’re saying bypasses the critical factor—and all that’s left then is to stimulate the unconscious mind.

And guess what? There’s nothing as stimulating to us as our own interests, desires, ambitions, goals, yearnings and emotions. For our whole lives, that is all we really have. So as long as your copy addresses those things for your prospect, it is guaranteed to carry them along in a rapt, semi-torpid daze of introspection.

An example

mailchimp homepage copy

Look at how MailChimp uses the word you on its homepage. The third word of the body copy is you. And it is used twice more in the same sentence (yes, your counts). Then again as the third word of the second sentence. And to top it off, they also use the word “personal” to emphasize how much this service is for you.

Obviously this particular bit of copy is short—space precludes me showing you a very long example. But the effect is only amplified in longer copy.


Why it’s hypnotic

Once again, it’s all about bypassing the critical factor so we can stimulate the unconscious mind.

You’ve probably heard of “reason why” advertising—a phrase I believe comes from John E Kennedy, though I learned it from Drayton Bird. As human beings, we crave order. We want to know why something is the way it is, what caused something to happen. And we crave it particularly in our own lives.

These kinds of reasons, these relationships of cause and effect, are encapsulated in the word because. When our mind’s gatekeeper—the “critical factor”—hears that word, it treats it as a cue to let the speaker (or writer) through to the unconscious mind.

This is expertly illustrated by Robert Cialdini in Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, where he cites a study you’ve probably heard of, performed by Ellen Langer at Harvard. Langer asked to push in line at the library to photocopy some papers:

“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine because I’m in a rush?”

The number of people who agreed: 94%.

Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine?

The number of people who agreed: 60%.

You’d be inclined to think the difference was because of the reason she gave. But a further experiment indicated otherwise…

Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine because I have to make some copies?

The number of people who agreed: 93%. Notice that no real reason was given this time—obviously, everyone waiting for the Xerox machine had to make copies. Yet nearly as many people agreed as when a real reason was given.

If you think back to your own childhood, or watch how kids negotiate with their parents, you’ll immediately see that this does indeed work exactly as Langer showed. Perhaps this sort of situation sounds familiar:

“Mom, can I have some biscuits?”

“No darling, not now.”

“But mom, I love biscuits.”

“I know sweetie, but I said not now.”

“But mom, why?

“Because I said so.”

Is that a real reason? No, it ain’t! It’s just a reiteration of what the kid already knows, right? But at this point, most children accept that it’s time to give up. And that’s something “programmed” into us, even as adults. It makes the word “because” very powerful.


This is not a magic bullet. Langer conducted a further study where she upped the number of pages to be Xeroxed from 5 to 20. And in that situation, the times when a nonsensical reason was given for pushing in line got no more people to agree than the times when no reason was given. Conversely, when the reason of being in a hurry was given, it doubled the number of people who agreed.

In other words, using the word “because” satisfies the brain’s natural search for reasons. For small requests, you can actually short-circuit the process and trick the mind into moving to the next stage of the sequence as if a real reason had been given, because it’s simply not important enough to devote brainpower to analyzing the reason. But for larger requests—even just for 20 pages at the Xerox machine, let alone when asking for a purchase—the critical factor doesn’t turn off so easily.

Nonetheless, using because still triggers the reason-why reflex. Give a good reason, and “you’re in”, so to speak. Judging from Langer’s experiment, it could as much as double your response rate.

An example

formsteel copy

Formsteel offers great benefits—then backs them up with solid reasons. Without the word because, the “reason why” reflex wouldn’t kick in automatically, and so the overall effect of the copy would be much weaker. Including because makes the mind accept the benefits are more unskeptically and unreservedly.


These are not the only hypnotic words. There are others. But these three are particularly powerful, and particularly useful to us as marketers and salespeople.

Imagine. You. Because.

They are also conveniently easy to work into copy, into videos, and even into face-to-face sales presentations. Why not try it and report your results below?

About the Author: Bnonn is known in the boroughs as the Information Highwayman, he helps entrepreneurs sell more online by improving both their web copy and design. When he’s not knee-deep in the guts of someone’s homepage, he is teaching his kids about steampunk, Nathan Fillion, and how to grapple a zombie without getting bit.

  1. Gregory Ciotti May 02, 2012 at 9:35 am

    I was waiting for “because”, heh, I loved that Xerox study back when I first read Cialdini’s book.

    Great write up Bnonn.

  2. Donnie Bryant May 02, 2012 at 9:53 am

    Another fantastic article, Bnonn.

    Funny, as I was reading, I thought to myself, this “feels” just like something my Kiwi buddy would write. The writing style, the level of expertise and the preponderance of detail.

    This is information that can be put to use TODAY. Great stuff.

  3. Chris Butterworth May 02, 2012 at 9:58 am

    I love it – a very what’s-in-it-for-you kinda style that lowers barriers and makes people feel comfortable. And comfortable people are more likely to read/buy (provided whatever you’re writing/selling is any good!)

    I’m still wondering what the other 3 words were…

    Thanks for sharing.

  4. Avinash D'Souza May 02, 2012 at 10:01 am

    Fantastic read Bnonn! There’s so much here that can be used…thank you for going into so much detail into WHY these words work. Much appreciated…

    *Off to think of ways in which I can incorporate the word imagine into my copy.*

  5. I am already “imagining” how much I can increase conversions by using those magical words. Thanks for the great content Bnonn

  6. I love this, you only have a few seconds to capture people and get them to read on. I will definitely try inserting some of these hypnotic words in my copy.

  7. Megan Garwood May 02, 2012 at 10:52 am

    Actually, I tend to automatically dislike other people who share my name… ;)

    Good article (as usual) from a very talented copywriter.

  8. Absolutely brilliant article!
    Because just image if you could posses all that knowledge how you could influence people :-)

    Thanks for this great article!

  9. Very interesting, I bet those ‘hypnotic words’ are even more persuasive whe combined with the right body language.

  10. Bradley Baker May 02, 2012 at 1:49 pm

    For those interested in finding the original Langer study:

    Langer, E., Blank, A., & Chanowitz, B. (1978). The mindlessness of ostensibly thoughtful action: The role of “placebic” information in interpersonal interaction. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 36(6), 635-642.

  11. Have you read the book, Hypnotic Writing by Joe Vitale? Or the book Webcopy That Sells by Maria Veloso? Vitale writes about using hypnotice writing AND uses it in his book. When you are reading it, you suddenly realize that he is using his techniques on you. e.g. take a pen or pencil and underline the number of “you’s: and “I’s” on a page. Maria Veloso gives you a list of “right brain” words and surprise, surprise, they are all hypnotic words to a greater or lesser degree

  12. Thank you – this article was really interesting! I guessed ‘imagine’ and ‘you’ but I had no idea that ‘because’ was also very powerful.

  13. Great post. I also would have never though ‘because’ could be that powerful. Cool stuff.

  14. William Cowie May 02, 2012 at 8:58 pm

    You had me at Imagine! Great content!

  15. I can increase conversions by using those 3 words, can´t wait starting to experiment.Now I know I have to study psychology. Thank you.

  16. Bibiano Wenceslao May 03, 2012 at 2:31 am

    Awesome post, Bnonn. Your post is an absolutely great example of how psychology is applied to online marketing. Because of this, I’ll definitely go over our client’s copy and implement this strategy that you’ve shared.

  17. One of the best posts i have read in the recent past. many thanks for sharing it.

  18. Great article, thanks for posting! I hadn’t really thought about these, but I agree with all of them. I studied Linguistics in school, and these psycholinguistic findings are fascinating to me.

  19. Ravi Janardhan May 03, 2012 at 4:55 am

    Awesome post! It can definitely help in making my conversations more sensible!

  20. Great stuff Bnonn. Frank Luntz also covers the words”You” and “Imagine” in his book “Words that work”. It’s worth reading.

    We’re running an A/B test where the only difference is that we capitallized the word You and put a dash under it. No conlusive result yet, but looks promising.

  21. Fantastic article – offers something very different to the others here. Psychology behind words is always fascinating. Thanks once again!

  22. Michael Lykke Aagaard May 04, 2012 at 4:09 am

    Thanks for a great article! I always use “you” as much as possible when I write sales copy. I love your point about using names in subject lines. In my experience, this strategy can backfire big time! I suspect most prospects today are too clever to fall for the old Hi (FNAME) auto responder gimmick ;-)

    Interesting theories about “imagine” and “because”. I love the Xerox case – it’s a classic. But to be honest, it’s rather fluffy. Do you have an case studies of your own, where you’ve split tested these theories? E.g. a case study where you’ve tested copy featuring something like “Imagine if you could get more leas and sales…” against a simpler more direct variation like “Get more leads and sales with product XXX…”

    – Michael

  23. As a variation, the word “so” can be used instead of “because”, as it also designates logic.

  24. Chris Hollister May 13, 2012 at 5:46 pm

    Interesting logic on the harmful effects of using a person’s name inappropriately. I will be more aware of his. Thanks.

  25. Thank you can I pliz have more of such words.So interesting.

  26. I am IMAGINING why I like YOUR article so much? BECAUSE I am HYPNOTIZED!

  27. Jordan Storme Oct 16, 2012 at 10:04 am

    Thanks Bnonn. I am going to put this to use this evening. I am going to send my offer to the same 65,000 people that I sent to last week. Instead of using the headline “You are invited to Win The Trip Of A Lifetime. All Inclusive. Montego Bay Jamaica! Qualifying Period Ends Feb 28th, 2013!” which resulted in approximately 8,000 opens, 12 inquires, and 1 new distributor. I am going to form something like “Image yourself in Jamaica. Picture it all inclusive because you saw the power of this awesome opportunity. Imagine yourself winning the trip of a lifetime!”
    I will return next week and let you all know what the results came out to be.

    • I am trying to imagine because you interested me in the potential of an alternate outcome? Please Jordan, provide your findings as I now imagine them to fascinating and powerful.
      Thank you -O

  28. These words are really powerful. I tested them in a few sales letters and they did make the difference!

  29. Imagine you are reading this post because you think it might have something important to say. Three power words in one sentence. I bet you’re still reeling from that hypnotic suggestion. Why? Because you know it has some kind of influence on your subconscious mind. Of course, YOU knew that and so you’re probably not at all impressed by what I’m saying here. Actually, just kidding around. Fact is, I thought YOU wrote a powerful article. And I IMAGINE a lot of people had that idea, too. BECAUSE you outlined your main ideas in a very effective way.

  30. Yes, YOU do make sense about getting past the minds critical factor, and turbo-charging their subconscious, SO asking the prospective customer to IMAGINE AND SEE the positive results they will gain AND while YOU have their mental defense’s knocked down AS YOU speak in a calm voice of authority MEANS you create Hypnotic Flow AND a deep state of relaxation within them BECAUSE AS they SEE what YOU are saying AND using guided IMAGERY they crave for your offer Simply BECAUSE of power words. This MEANS much much more sales for YOU because you are the master of imagery AND embedded commands. Simple AS that am I right? Yeah.

  31. Douglas Pelton Feb 09, 2013 at 10:28 am

    Basicly you hit it right on the nail & I just finished reading this info and used it on a buyers agent who has a contract in on my listing and now is ready to work the way I like to deal.

  32. Great article. I alike many others guessed ‘imagine’ and ‘you’ but I really had no idea that ‘because’ was so effective.

  33. Jamie O'Rourke Feb 19, 2013 at 3:09 pm

    Excellent advice. I’m looking forward to understanding more about the power of words.

  34. I learned from your article that powerful but polite words does not need to be long. Infact shorter the better!. SimilarIy I have found a collection of power packed meaningful proverbs from different cultures crystalized its message within 2 or 3 words. My favorite is a Russian proverb “Boldness take cities”.Here is more…

    It is the age of softskills!

  35. very interesting article to read. I do like how you really took the time to explain things properly. many thanks.

  36. Igor Ledochowski Mar 30, 2013 at 12:08 pm

    The 3 words mentioned are amongst the powerful used as part of any NLP or conversational hypnosis techniques. With so many of these words they may appear to be somewhat ‘throw-away’ in nature but when used correctly are indeed very powerful persuaders.

  37. Thanks Igor. Most of what I know about hypnosis I learned from you :)

  38. Imagine, Bronn, how thankful I am for your fantastic article. Because you provided three powerful hypnotic words, updating the contents of my website seems a lot easier.

    Will you please list the other three?

  39. Richard Santos Nov 12, 2014 at 8:23 am

    Wow!! These are 3 great words, would you agree Bronn? Because you can use them in your copy to get better results in your marketing efforts. Imagine how you will convince your clients using these 3 powerful words. Wouldn’t that feel awesome? —- Thanks for Bronn for sharing!

  40. Hi,
    You had contributed a worthy blog post here, It’s a good one, worth reading even if you read it before. You had played a bigger game! Now it’s your job to come up with the next great thing, love to learn more from you. keep blogging.

  41. Thanks for this great advices ! I will test it as soon as possible on social media !

  42. Look,here are some of the hynoptic words you use but didn’t bring to light because you want us to think for ourselves, so we may really learn in the process.

    There are: #1 BEFORE (presupposition) #2 WHEN YOU action … THEN you benefits (Another presupposition +reason why)
    #3 WHY and #4 SO

  43. Thanks for the update. I really appreciate the efforts you have made for this blog. Hypnotic words are really becoming very popular these days to attract the traffic to your website and increase the conversion rate.
    Thanks once again for the post…Its really helpful.

  44. I love it, and I am already “imagining” how much I can increase conversions by using those magical words. Thanks again

  45. I bypassed all your hypnotic words in the first para and got right into your topic (something I did unintentionally…i read from the third point upto d top) but even then thank You for an amazing article because I got it at the right time I was looking for what can trigger the subconscious mind into beleiving things…

  46. Great and fantastic article about hypnosis Bnonn. I was searching for the top 10 hypnosis articles and found this one. Really fantastic and some kind of funny post.

    Thank you!

  47. Great post Bnonn. I want to know what the other 3 words are! Since reading, I’ve started to include because and imagine more often in my writing. The psychological explanations are extremely insightful too.

    Since I thought this information was super valuable, I want to share it. I’ve included it in my recent post: Best Practices for Great Landing Page Design (

    Thank you!

  48. A very nice approach, great article…It feels a bit recursively thou…See you open up your mind on the hypnosis part because the use of the words…So very tricky indead, influencing you at the same time while he teaches you….And the answer to it lies in the last chapter


    “Imagine. You. Because.”

    Read it in a reverse order and you have your answer.

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